Rants

When I need to vent before I kick someone.

I’ve been known to bite, too.

Privilege

When I am told about our national heritage or about “civilization,” I am shown that people of my color made it what it is. This. From White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack by Peggy McIntosh. Don’t get white privilege? You’re not alone. I think whites are carefully taught not to recognize white privilege, as males […]

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Dear Grocery-Store Employees

I’m going to address this to all of you, even though not all of you bag groceries, because maybe you can stop this dreadful incident from occurring again. Specifically, though, I want to talk to the baggers. To the bottom of the totem pole people, the ones stuck with all the worst jobs I’m sure.

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The Making of a Humbug

So many of my friends are so stressed right now, and I’m not sympathetic at all. I mean, I am, but I really wish I could convince them to stop it. If someone really want to go all out for Christmas, I say go for it. But if it’s making people miserable, stressing them out

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Never Heard a Whining Agent

Rachelle Gardner commented on her blog about the age-old question of whether agents hate writers. The usual internet shit-storm erupted, of course, although most people who bother to read an agent’s blog are there to learn, and show respect. Some commenters, though, echoed a refrain I’ve heard so many times. And I’ve just got to

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I Just Don’t Get It

Interrupting the NaNo-blogging to say: I just don’t get it. WTF, Maine? How did gays ever hurt you? WTH, California? Just try getting by without your gays! WTFBBQ!!!! to my own state, where we have a frakkin’ BAN, just to make damn sure. Traditional marriage is threatened by things like “How to Marry a Millionaire”

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It’s His Right, Nosy Straight People!

I wrote this when I stumbled on it, and didn’t even think about it being Coming Out Day today. I’m certainly not in opposition to Coming Out Day–this is just another side of a complicated issue. We now rejoin our rant, already in progress– Besides being one of the bigger personalities in figure skating, Weir

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M/M or Gay?

Ask yourself this: why do you call your work “m/m” instead of “gay”? Both are three keystrokes. Why is it you only refer to your work as “gay” when you want to get a Lambda nomination? The Lambdas are for LGBT writing, not LGBT-slash writing. via Queer and Loathing in America – Part of Your

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