Rants

When I need to vent before I kick someone.

I’ve been known to bite, too.

Sorry About the Structural Damage

Sorry About the Structural Damage

Sometimes the damned universe just won’t MOVE. You’re doing all you can, you’re shoving with all you got, and it won’t MOVE. I’m a patient person, until I’m not. When I decide on something, I want it done. Let’s GO, let’s MOVE, it’s TIME. The universe does not often work like that. The parts of […]

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International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia

International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia

I meant to have a great post ready for today. I actually knew it was coming! Umm…yesterday. But hell. My mind was on other things, and I didn’t come up with anything. Because, you know–I have that luxury. I’m straight and cis. This day is very important, but it’s not about me. It can slip

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Girls Can Be Geeks Too

So a while back I talked about the awesome Set Phasers to LOL. I barely mentioned then, and I’ve not mentioned a few times since, a truly annoying thing that keeps popping up. Sometimes it’s veiled. Sometimes it’s not so much. see more Set Phasers To Lol Get over this, okay? Because “girls” go to

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What Do You Do If Your Child is Gay?

What do you do when your treasured child, your darling daughter, your handsome and sweet son, announces he’s gay? Say you love him/her. Do it now. That child you have loved all her life, that baby you guarded and toddler you chased, is standing there afraid they’ve done the one thing Mom and Dad can’t

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STFU, You’re Amazing

STFU, You're Amazing

I was reading this today, and I wanted to stand up and cheer. I’m talking about how we minimize, despise, excoriate, and abhor ourselves. How we exclude ourselves from consideration. How we martyr ourselves for others. How we call ourselves ugly, awful, incompetent, and stupid. I don’t know exactly how to describe the sensation I

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Yes, Young Children CAN Know They Are Gay

Yes, Young Children CAN Know They Are Gay

I was reading this wonderful post, and a comment annoyed me. It was just one, among many wonderful supportive comments, but still. (Yes, I know. Even though I tell my friends never to read the comments, I was reading the comments. I’m a bad girl.) The commenter (you can find it yourself if you like)

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On the Margins

So, just when PayPal decided not to attack print erotica through Smashwords and many other venues after all, Amazon has decided marginalizing homosexual relations is okay. Amazon, which keeps insisting, #Amazonfail after fail, that it is gay-friendly and good people and really it’s not our fault it just happens. Bullshit. You want to be assholes,

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